NEW Videos added to "SDI Learns From..." FREE series!

Published in Announcements on Jan 16, 2011

Immerse yourself in NEW videos from the “SDI Learns From…” FREE educational series! Please share these YouTube videos when you teach, via your workshops and online resource links, and with seekers.

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New videos in "SDI Learns From ...'

These brief descriptions highlight a few themes from interviews that are best seen and heard! Seven to ten minutes--take a break and treat yourself.

Cynthia Baga describes how spiritual direction and life itself cultivate a primary relationship with God
Zsuzsanna Laczko speaks about forgiveness, healing, discerning a call to become a spiritual director
Rev. Msgr. Ramon Masculino tells how to cultivate gratefulness, and describes who can benefit from spiritual direction
Terrence J. Moran poetically shares the essence of spiritual direction and the role of prayer and contemplative practice in spiritual direction.
Korko Moses, SJ explains who can benefit from spiritual direction and the practice of guidance in India.
Dr. Hannah Nathans explores the role of a healthy ego and how spiritual direction aids our inner work.
Father Daniel O'Leary offers guidance about common themes in spiritual direction, cultivating peace and presence, and describes an anam cara.
Myles O'Reilly, SJ speaks about Saint Ignatius, desire, and spiritual companionship
Andrew Rudd shares about spiritual direction and writing, poetry, and contemplative practice
Sally Taylor teaches about contemplative practices in spiritual direction

Every week this month new additions will be added, from interviews filmed during Spiritual Directors International educational events!

Who do you want to see included in the SDI Learns From ... series? Please post a comment with your idea!


Video Slideshow--SDI Pilgrimage to Israel and Palestine

Published in Stories on Jan 13, 2011

Be uplifted by SDI member Chris Copeland's visual experience and the mystical music about how peace depends on you and me. Interfaith spiritual relationships and contemplative practices are antidotes for religious discord and chaos. Thank you, Chris for celebrating in your slideshow lived potential from your experience of the SDI Interfaith Pilgrimage to Israel and Palestine, A Journey to the Heart Inner Paths to Compassion, Connection, and Peace.

  • Jerusalem
  • Bethlehem
  • Beit Sahour
  • Sea of Galilee
  • Zefat
  • Nazareth
  • Korazim

Music by permission from Miriam Ahuvatel, who gave the pilgrims a concert. "Peace depends on you and me."

To learn more about how meeting regularly with a spiritual director contributes to peace and compassion in our world, visit www.sdiworld.org


Please join SDI to pray for peace and hope in our world ...

Published in Stories on Jan 8, 2011

Spiritual direction contributes to peace. Watch how SDI pilgrims from Africa, Europe, North and South America come together for peace in East Jerusalem. Bringing contemplative practice for peace to Israel and Palestine. Listen to Covita's music "Greetings of Peace." Thanking the Interfaith Amigos Rabbi Ted Falcon, Sheikh Jamal Rahman, Pastor Don Mackenzie, and St. George's College.


New Year’s Resolution: Make a Retreat

Published in Membership Moments on Jan 6, 2011
Guest author: Liz Budd Ellmann, MDiv

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In the New Year, when will you make time for a personal retreat, to nourish your soul and practice compassion for yourself, which ripples out into our families, communities, and world?

Near the end of last year, I made a silent retreat at a retreat center located in a tiny village called Trosly in northern France. Jean Vanier directed the retreat. Jean is the founder of the international movement of L'Arche communities, where people who have developmental disabilities and the friends who assist them create homes and share life together. I am deeply grateful for Sister Elisabeth le Jariel, RSCJ, a spiritual director and chaplain in Paris, France, who invited me to join her on the retreat titled, “Community: A Place for Forgiveness and Celebration.” Jean and Elisabeth are pictured above.

Describing the value of silent retreats is difficult, especially to family and friends who cannot fathom choosing to fast from television, radio, newspapers, e-mail, social networking, and conversation for a week to enter deeply contemplative space and touch into kairos time. Even my dear husband, Steve, thinks I am nuts. Yet he admits he notices a difference when I return renewed and awake to life in new ways. Thank God for soul friends like Elisabeth who understand the need to be in silence and know just the place to be.

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The flow of the retreat included meals in silence, a morning and afternoon inspirational talk by Jean Vanier, and ample time for contemplative practices like walking meditation, praying, creating haikus and contemplative photographs, meeting with a spiritual director, and daily Mass with the local L’Arche community. People from all over the world, but mostly from France, participated in the retreat. While I cannot tell you much about their personal stories, a week in silence together built community amongst us. One of the most moving moments came near the end of the retreat when Jean invited us to wash each other’s feet. Tears of deep belonging flowed as we cared for each other with tenderness, in silence.

In his book, Becoming Human, Jean wrote, “My vision is that belonging should be at the heart of a fundamental discovery: that we all belong to a common humanity, the human race. We may be rooted in a specific family and culture but we come to this earth to open up to others, to serve them and receive the gifts they bring to us, as well as to all of humanity.”

You will do a world of good for yourself and for all of humanity by tending to your soul in 2011 by making a retreat. Moreover, perhaps it would be appropriate to start now, encouraging the people you companion to plan ahead for a retreat this year. Dream a little—where would you go?  Retreat possibilities are numerous—including everyday life retreats, silent retreats, online retreats, and group retreats. If you need ideas about where to make a retreat, check out the listings in the back of Presence journal, look in Connections e-newsletter, or review the global resources in Listen. Consider this: in May join the silent retreat following the Spiritual Directors International conference in Atlanta, Georgia. Or go online to the Resources section of the Spiritual Directors International website—a global searchable listing shows retreat centers with spiritual directors on a world map. You will find retreat centers all over the world waiting for you to come home to your soul.

In the comments section on the blog, please share your stories about what happens to you on retreat.

Happy New Year!


Field Guide: Learning Bird Language—A Pathway to a Contemplative Life

Published in Stories on Jan 1, 2011

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Listen: A Seeker's Resource for Spiritual Direction, Vol 5.1, January 2011

Field Guide:
Learning Bird Language—A Pathway to a Contemplative Life

"Contemplative living is living in true relationship with oneself, God, others and nature, free of the illusions of separateness.” – Thomas Merton

It is easy to think of contemplation as something people do in a monastery or learn in their later years. But for indigenous people throughout the world, and especially for the ancient scout, a contemplative heart was acquired as part of learning survival. Those of us who seek to live a contemplative life can learn a great deal from indigenous cultures whose very way of being in the world cultivated contemplation and interiority.

It was the job of the ancient scouts to travel many miles ahead of the people so that they could discern danger and find suitable living situations for the group. The survival of all depended on the scouts' alertness and attentiveness to their environment. Because the ancient scouts were so attuned to the earth and its creatures they could read the language of the birds just as we learn to read road signs. It was the language of the birds that could, and still can, be discerned by the five universal messages they all convey. Most significantly, the scout could decipher the bird's alarm call as distinct from their other four calls. This understanding guided and protected the scout.

From the youngest ages, the elders trained their children to listen. They learned to listen to the birds, the wind, and most of all to the silence. They were trained to be at home in the silence as it is a doorway to the Great Silence or to the Spirit-that-moves-through-all-things. Even when they played with other children, there was a great deal of shared silence and attentiveness to the environment that surrounded them. This stands in sharp contrast to the frequency with which modern youth fill up natural spaces with boom boxes that exude loud hyper music.

Jon Young is a contemporary expert on nature awareness and the language of the birds. His expertise comes from elders of indigenous tribes as well as from the birds themselves. He would say there is nothing spiritual or religious about the information he teaches as it simply reflects a way of life. I would suggest that the entire life of the indigenous people was a contemplative one. In order to understand his teachings and to understand the significance of bird language, it is necessary to understand what Young and others call Jungle Law. This law pertains to nature in general and the rules are the same whether one is in Africa, Asia, or North, Central, or South America. We are all interconnected, not only at the level of matter, but also at the level of perception and communication.

There is a huge network of interspecies communication occurring all the time, and it appears that we humans are the only ones who are often oblivious to that fact. It is possible for a scout to traverse the woods without setting off dramatic creature alarms, but most of us seem to have what Young calls the bird plow effect. We walk into the woods noisily and without respect, and then wonder why we never get to see wild animals up close.

We don't see them because the birds and other creatures have already warned them, minutes before we even get near. Just as we get vibes about other people rather quickly, the birds are scanning and profiling us all the time. They are reading our spirits and our intent with amazing accuracy. They have to, as their very survival depends on discerning predators quickly. And as far as the birds can tell, most of us are very dangerous or at least questionable characters. We traverse the terrain without respect for other creatures, their habitat or their life cycles. But this is not always the case. There are humans who quietly pass through this veil of bird and creature alarm, seemingly unnoticed. I say seemingly because they have been embraced by the creature world as a non-threat. Their energy has been profiled and they have passed the test. It is not luck that enables them to see creatures up close and personal, but rather their level of sensitivity and at-one-ment with all life that has enabled them to enter this contemplative state.

Young calls this state of peace baseline; losing our minds and coming to our senses; becoming a reflective pond; coming into the Sacred Silence; or recovering what we knew as children. When baseline is achieved, the creatures are relaxed and co-exist in a peaceful state. Ancient scouts could travel in that state of harmony, knowing the creatures would alert them at least two minutes before a dangerous person or animal arrived. Of all the creatures, it is the birds that have the greatest vantage point and the greatest ability to scan the environment. So the scouts would pay special attention to their calls. Of the five universal calls of the birds, only one is an alarm call. A student of bird language must first learn to distinguish the territorial call from the male-male aggression call, the companion call, and the feed me call. These are distinct from the alarm call. In order to learn the distinct calls, Young encourages the student to study ground feeding birds such as robins and sparrows, as they will be the most readily attuned to dangers on the ground like humans and animals.

In order to more fully understand how this communication and warning system works, one must be aware of what Jon Young and others speak of as the concentric rings of nature. All life forms send out information in the form of motion, smell, sound, and so forth. This information spreads out with a ripple effect in the form of concentric rings just as a drop of water sends out rings of water. The bird sends out an alarm call, the deer hears it and then animals see the deer dart, and so forth. Once the bird sends the initial alarm, all the other creatures are alerted to the fact that a dangerous intruder is near. So it is not a coincidence that some people get to see creatures readily and others do not. Jon Young tells the story of his son who learned at an early age that the forest treats you differently when you are in a bad mood.” The forest is literally offering us instant biofeedback as to the condition of our soul and our spirit. Perhaps that explains why Saint Francis was known to have birds land on his shoulder.

In contrast to the insensitive bird plough effect of the modern person, the indigenous persons learned how to quiet their bodies and their minds so that they could be attentive to their environment. From the earliest age, the elders would tell the children "Sh-h-h-h, listen!" Not always clear as to what they were supposed to hear, the children would develop a general listening and attentive posture. This capacity for listening and being still is the first and most crucial skill students must learn in Jon Young's Nature Awareness School. It is also a key element in cultivating a contemplative heart. Each student must find a secret spot in nature where they return for at least twenty to thirty minutes a day. While at their spot, they must remain quiet and still in body and mind, paying attention only to that which surrounds them, and especially the birds.

Young teaches this skill to children and adults. It is the first step toward becoming a non-threatening presence in nature. Young says it takes a minimum of twenty minutes of stillness and peacefulness for the creatures to trust that one is not a threat and for baseline to be restored to the environment. After that time the students begin to hear birdsong return and animals begin to take a risk and allow themselves to be seen more readily. For the more reticent creatures, it takes much longer. In fact, he says it is unlikely that an animal is ever unaware of you. Rather, it is more likely that they have been watching you long enough to feel safe enough to allow you to see them. An up-close-and-personal animal encounter is a biofeedback acknowledgement that one is growing in his or her capacity for stillness and presence in the here and now.

As one spends more and more time cultivating this capacity for a quiet, still and non-threatening profile in nature, it becomes apparent that many changes take place. The creatures are not only beginning to feel safer, but one also begins to internalize a Silent Mind or the Sacred Silence. The deer notice you, but they don't sneak away. It is as if you are invited into a secret world of harmony and trust. For the native people, entryway into this seemingly secret world was predicated on an understanding of what Young calls the Routine of Invisibility. Invisibility is this capacity to traverse the land without setting off alarm or being perceived as a threat.

The first thing one does in this routine is become anchored in an attitude of gratitude. One is thankful for all living things including plants, animals, minerals, creatures of the sea, people, ancestors and the Giver of all Life. Then one attunes oneself to the environment with special attention to sound and sights in all directions. One walks slowly and respectfully, honoring the other creatures and doing everything possible to not disturb them. Again, this would include respect for jungle law. For example, do not stare down another creature, unless you want to fight with them or mate with them. Do not crowd a creature when they are eating peacefully.

For those of us who would seek to learn these old ways, this process is a self-conscious and deliberate one, but for the children who grew up in an indigenous culture, these patterns were a way of life. I would also add, a contemplative way of life. Those of us, in the modern world, who seek to have a more contemplative life, work hard to quiet our monkey minds. We work hard to incorporate more quiet and stillness in our overly busy lives. We try to learn how to be present to the moment. We regularly remind ourselves to cultivate an attitude of gratitude. We do all of this while continuing to spend most of our lives in buildings and cars. We are cut off from the very thing that nurtures a contemplative life, which is the natural environment of which we are a part. But we can learn from the example of Young and other modern day contemplatives who have come to be at home in the wilderness among other creatures.

Young tells a compelling story and example of the extent to which we are connected to other creatures. After being in the wilderness for a long while, Young says he “had been living in a dynamic meditation for days.” He claims to have been able to go beyond the place of thinking, as the thinking state removes one from a state of awareness, unity, and harmony with all. As he walked the woods in this state of oneness, he noticed a fox heading toward him down the narrow path. He knew they would pass within one or two feet of each other, and became very excited to be that near to a wild fox. Then he said that for the first time in days, he had a thought, "I can't wait to tell people about this."! As soon as he entered into that thinking zone, the fox showed his teeth in a defensive posture. Upset with himself, Young quickly did all he could to abandon his thought and return to the former state of oneness and harmony. As soon as he did so, the fox returned to a relaxed state and they were able to pass each other with ease.  As unusual as this story sounds, it is not as uncommon as one might think. In the Catholic tradition, as in many spiritual traditions, Catholic saints were known to befriend creatures and demonstrate an unusual ability to tame ferocious creatures with loving-kindness.

It is often said that the sign of a true saint or a true mystic is the degree to which their lives manifest the love of God for all people and all creatures. It is not enough that they would reach heights and depths of unitive experience. It has always been the quality of love with which they returned from those experiences that distinguished them as great saints or great contemplatives. In a similar manner, Young speaks of the Seven Sacred Attributes. These attributes indicate that one is living in the natural state of awareness or the Sacred Way. These attributes also suggest that it is the nature of unitive experiences to enliven us and increase our gratitude, our compassion and our desire to give to others.

The Seven Sacred Attributes are:

   1. Quietness

   2. Happiness of a child

   3. Quickness of health like a wolf or a coyote

   4. Being truly helpful and understanding your gifts—why you were put on earth

   5. Empathy with and compassion for all living things. Seeing the Creator's love in all things

   6. Gratitude and thankfulness

   7. Feeling you have come alive–loving life, appreciating every moment

These attributes were a sign that one was living in accord with the Sacred Way. Young explains that there was once a time where the common person was highly aware of the landscape and highly attuned to the environment as well as to the Spirit-that-moves-through-all-things. That is why the ancient teachings could say, "The common person, their way is sacred." But that is no longer the case. More often than not, people have forgotten the old ways. We no longer have the keen awareness of our environment or of the sacredness of the Spirit that is moving through all of it. With sadness, one can only more accurately say, "People who lived the sacred way–all was sacred."

Too often we hear the hopeless forecasts about our planet and our precarious future. But the ancient teachings tell us that the future is not fixed. We are told that there are many possible futures and it is never too late for us to choose something new, or perhaps something very old. Our very survival on this planet depends on it, as does the salvation of our spirits.

Jon Young is a pioneer in helping modern day seekers find their home in nature and in the Sacred Way. He would not say he is a spiritual or religious leader, but I think Merton would disagree. The ancient teachings Young presents help an individual discover what Merton defines as contemplative living. Adults and children alike are finding an unself-conscious pathway to this contemplative life as they return to their original home among all living things. They are finding, as Merton writes, a "true relationship with oneself, God, others and nature, free of the illusions of separateness."

Nancy Cannon is an artist and a spiritual director who lives with her husband on eight wooded acres in Michigan, USA. Their land provides daily creature encounters as well as endless inspiration for her art. She can be reached at nancycannon@allearthtiles.com.

*Author footnote: I live on eight wooded acres of land in Michigan. Over time the animals have become used to my presence and will sometimes ignore me instead of alarm. From the moment I first began this essay, I sat outside in our woods. As I began to write, three deer sauntered within thirty to forty feet of my spot. Eventually they found their day beds and slept while I continued to write. Hours later they began to explore closer to my spot and eventually became very curious about me. I tried to avoid eye contact as much as possible as they walked up to within twenty feet of me–staring inquisitively. Then one of them snorted and spooked me. I jumped a little and they darted, only to return again and stare some more. By that time my first draft was completed, I thanked the deer for their support, and went back to my house nearby.

Excerpt from Listen: A Seeker’s Resource for Spiritual Direction, Vol. 5.1, “Field Guide: Learning Bird Language” by Nancy Cannon, (Spiritual Directors International (c) 2011). Used with the permission of Spiritual Directors International. To order copies or a FREE subscription to Listen: A Seeker’s Resource for Spiritual Direction call 1-425-455-1565 or go to www.sdiworld.org.

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Kwanzaa Reflections

Published in Stories on Dec 27, 2010

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Therese Taylor-Stinson, a Spiritual Directors International member, and Presbyterian spiritual director offers Kwanzaa reflections.

To read, click Kwanzaa reflections.

Kwanzaa is a seven day festival celebrating the African American people, their culture, and their history. Kwanzaa begins on December 26 and continues until January 1.

How can you add to these reflections? What is evoked in you?
Please share by posting your comments.


A Christmas Prayer

Published in Announcements on Dec 24, 2010

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Christmas meditation
May the Christmas mystery unfold in you,
historically, in the here and now, and into the future.
May the ways you listen and offer transformational presence, heal.
May you know accompaniment from friends and strangers,
May you be a shelter for all who are lonely and abandoned,
And may love prevail in your heart, birthing peace and hope in action.

 

Thank you
Artist and SDI member Ivana Noble, a spiritual director and professor living in the Czech Republic, graciously gave permission for SDI to share her artwork "Escape to Egypt" with you. She is the author of Tracking God: An Ecumenical Fundamental Theology, published in 2010.

 


NEW Spiritual Guidance Videos with Father Daniel O'Leary

Published in Announcements on Dec 19, 2010

Do you desire to learn about spiritual direction? Curious about who an anam cara is? Would you be surprised that themes of fear, courage and forgiveness are common topics in spiritual direction? Wondering how you could cultivate inner peace and presence?

Sit with Father Daniel O'Leary for a few minutes in two “Spiritual Directors International Learns From…” FREE short videos. Filmed during the SDI educational events in Europe; Ireland, O'Leary was the conference keynote presenter.

SDI Learns From…Father Daniel O’Leary. “Fear, Courage and Forgiveness in Spiritual Direction”

SDI Learns From... Father Daniel O'Leary

About Father Daniel O’Leary
A priest and teacher in the Diocese of Leeds, England. Award-winning author of twelve books, he regularly contributes to the Tablet and the Irish Furrow. His current passion includes recovering the sacramental imagination in spiritual ministries. O’Leary was born in Rathmore, near Killarney, in County Kerry, Ireland. He attended All Hallows College Seminary in Dublin and has strong roots in Ireland as well as leading conferences and retreats throughout Europe. Visit www.sdiworld.org to seek and find spiritual directors in your area to interview.

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Spiritual Directors International creates educational videos for the general public to tell the story of spiritual direction, which is also known as spiritual companionship, spiritual guidance, and spiritual accompaniment.

Please share these videos with your colleagues, local religious and spiritual institutions, hospital, organizations that offer spiritual care, seekers, family, friends, students, and everyone seeking a spiritual director or guide
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Founder of the Open House in Ramle, Israel, Meets with SDI Pilgrims

Published in Stories on Dec 15, 2010

altDalia Landau, founder of the Open House in Ramle, Israel, tells her story to Spiritual Directors International interfaith pilgrims.

Landau's story is published in the book, The Lemon Tree. This open letter was first published in the The Jerusalem Post:

The story of Open House in Ramle must be told through the voices and the relationship of Dalia Landau, co-founder, and of Bashir Al-Khayri, whose family built and lived in the house until they were forced out by the Israelis in 1948. We offer below two pieces that taken together deepen our understanding of the Open House story, offering hope that through compassionate understanding a way past the on-going tragedy may be discovered.


Even if Dalia and Bashir have never been able to reconcile their historical narratives and ideological positions, they agreed to dedicate their shared home for interrelated
purposes: Bashir wanted a preschool for less advantaged Arab children. Dalia wanted a community center where Jews and Arabs of all ages could engage in activities promoting reconciliation through the twin ideals of justice and loving-kindness. Open House offers tangible testimony to cooperation despite deep ideological differences caused by such disparate life experiences. Read more.

Links
SDI blog post: "The Lemon Tree: A Story of Expulsion and Safehaven in Palestine"
Dalia Landau’s “Letter to a Deportee”
For a photographic journey from TIME
Suggested resources for SDI 2010 Interfaith Peace Pilgrimage: Israel-Palestine

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Spiritual Direction Cultivates Happiness

Published in Announcements on Dec 10, 2010

Spiritual direction or spiritual guidance helps people become whole, healthy, healed, and live an integrated, vibrant life. Happiness is an inherent part of being human.

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During the American Public Media show Being "Pursuing Happiness" host Krista Tippett said: "The Dalai Lama reflected on the meaning of happiness in a public gathering in Atlanta in mid-October—together with three leading figures in Christianity, Judaism, and Islam. What are their mental and physical practices, their spiritual insights, to cultivate happiness and sustain it? Can happiness as a way of being in the world also encompass suffering and conflict?" Listeners heard:

"I always believe and also share with the people, the very purpose of our life is for happiness. The very purpose of our existence is for happiness." -- His Holiness the 14th Dalai Lama

"There's this ongoing tension between seeing happiness as joining with God, as communion with God, that's only possible in the afterlife, and the insistence that human beings are created to be happy, that happiness is possible in this life." -- Most Rev. Dr. Katharine Jefferts Schori

"We're created in beauty. We're drawn to beauty and our soul is drawn to beauty. So, yes, there's a very deep nexus between beauty and happiness, and happy is the person who realizes inner beauty." -- Professor Dr. Seyyed Hossein Nasr

"Sometimes we don't need to pursue happiness. We just need to pause and let it catch up with us." -- Chief Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks

What does happiness evoke in you?
These are the type of questions and ponderings you can talk about with your spiritual director or share in conversation with friends, family, and coworkers.

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Locate a spiritual guide near you
Watch Being show: Pursuing Happiness


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