Helping To End Religious Violence?
Spiritual Directors International member The Rev. Eileen Epperson, MA, MDiv, is featured in The Lakeville Journal (Salisbury, Connecticut, USA) article: “Talking, Listening and Perhaps Ending Religious Violence” by Patrick L. Sullivan. Originator of The Forgiveness Process® she explains the often misunderstood concept of forgiveness:
“It has nothing to do with the other person. … Individuals feel that by forgiving they are somehow losing or condoning something. Epperson compares a person who is stuck on what she calls “the Velcro of the past” to a hamster on a wheel, running furiously and getting nowhere. We can step out of that by declaring we are getting off the hamster wheel.”
Epperson believes that “When you listen, people feel safe enough to say what they need to say.” She will be in Melbourne, Australia 3-9 December 2009 with a similar message for the Parliament of the World’s Religions
Read the entire article on the TCExtra Web site...
Ring. Pause. Ring. Pause. Ring. Pause. During a retreat at Thich Nhat Hahn’s Plum Village in France, I learned how to use everyday sounds to practice returning my attention to the present moment. When the telephone would ring during a community meal, everyone on retreat stopped whatever we were doing – we held our forks in mid-bite and ended conversation mid-sentence. The dining hall became silent while the telephone rang three times. On the fourth ring, a Vietnamese Buddhist nun on staff would pick up the telephone, “Bonjour,” and then everyone would start chatting and eating again. The telephone rang frequently, and randomly, so we had plenty of opportunity to learn the rhythm of being in silence together for short, sweet moments of rest.
In 2008, several participants in the annual Spiritual Directors International events in Washington, DC, convened the first meeting of the Spiritual Directors of Color Network. The network has continued to grow, and now includes people of color from throughout the African diaspora, including the United States, Nigeria, Cameroon, and South Africa, as well as Latin America, India, and Korea. The network is hosting its first international teleconference on Saturday, July 11, 2009, at 10 AM EDST. If you are a person of color in the ministry and practice of spiritual direction and would like to be on the call, contact Therese Taylor-Stinson at taylorstinson[at]earthlink[dot]net.


