Tips for a great day
6. Engage in personal development. Read a book, watch your sermon on video and see how you can improve, meet with a mentor or spiritual director...do something to better yourself. If you improve yourself as a part of your daily routine, you will feel better about the direction of your life and God's ability to use you.See the other six here.
A saint's dark night
Mother Teresa of Calcuta's privite journals and letters are about to be published under the title Mother Teresa: Come Be My Light. Exerpts appeared in the the August 23 issue of Time from which we learned that Mother Teresa spent the last decades of her life in an agonizing feeling of separation from God. In a New York Times editorial, James Martin, SJ, comments about her struggle:
Mother Teresa’s “dark night” was of a different magnitude, lasting for decades. It is almost unparalleled in the lives of the saints. In time, with the aid of the priest who acted as her spiritual director, Mother Teresa concluded that these painful experiences could help her identify not only with the abandonment that Jesus Christ felt during the crucifixion, but also with the abandonment that the poor faced daily.Read the rest of Martin's comments here.
Shifting boundaries
A mid-30s GenX mom blogs about her retreat at Iona:
I can’t remember what my spiritual director—a jolly Dominican nun just a few years older than I—said in response to all this, though it was almost definitely a question rather than a declaration. But like a flash I realized: when a gate swings shut, it doesn’t just close off a path. It also creates a boundary. A safe space. A refuge.Read the rest of her post here.
Church and state
The twilight of the idols has been postponed. For more than two centuries, from the American and French Revolutions to the collapse of Soviet Communism, world politics revolved around eminently political problems. War and revolution, class and social justice, race and national identity — these were the questions that divided us. Today, we have progressed to the point where our problems again resemble those of the 16th century, as we find ourselves entangled in conflicts over competing revelations, dogmatic purity and divine duty. We in the West are disturbed and confused. Though we have our own fundamentalists, we find it incomprehensible that theological ideas still stir up messianic passions, leaving societies in ruin. We had assumed this was no longer possible, that human beings had learned to separate religious questions from political ones, that fanaticism was dead. We were wrong.Read the rest of Mark Lilla's insightful article, "The Politics of God," here.
25th Anniversary Rolheiser lecture
Rev. Ronald Rolheiser, OMI, recently spoke on “Secularity and the Gospel: Being Missionaries to Our Own Children” as part of the Great Theologians Lecture series at the Seattle University School of Theology and Ministry. You can listen to or view the lecture here.
A mentor is necessary for inner reform
The role of the spiritual mentor is essential in the practice of Tasawwuf. Tasawwuf is the traditional Islamic science of self-improvement and spirituality (sufism), focussing on one's relationship with Allah. The Revivalry blog explains the practice:
Hence, when one turns to a Spiritual Mentor, it is to reform oneself, and that is the real objective of turning to him is achieved: to imbibe excellent traits, and ward off and crush the unworthy characteristics. This, then, is the true purpose of Tasawwuf. Nevertheless, the Zikr and supplications are also helpful to the seeker. Only through the guidance of the Spiritual Mentor can the regimen of Zikr, supplications and other repetitions be prescribed for every individual according to the Sheikh's opinion of his condition.You can read more about Tasawwuf and the need for a spiritual mentor here.
The image of spiritual direction
Gannet Girl, a spiritual director in training, compares her understanding of spiritual direction to the art of photography and the process of discernment.
Spiritual direction (much like a polished photograph) is ultimately about discernment and its consequences. We tend to think of discernment in prayer as a process for the big things in life: Should I marry this person? Go to law school or go to work for Pixar? Pursue social justice or a 401(k)? Turn my life upside down and go to seminary or retain my employment and secure salary? (Yes, go ahead and laugh.) But discernment is a means for seeing God in all things, not just the big ones, and engaging in the process of spiritual direction nurtures that capacity in us. If you are called into the desert of prayer, it's good to have company.Click here to read more.
Kriya Yoga meditation
Depression and spiritual direction
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I sat in my car and took a breath. This would be the first time I met with my spiritual director. I was a little nervous. I wasn’t sure what to expect, but I knew I needed to do this. I needed someone to help me find my way out of the depression that had darkened my life and back to intimacy with God. I hadn’t sinned or wandered off—nothing so dramatic. What I had been for the last five years was busy. First I attended seminary plus worked a full-time job. After seminary, the full-time job continued, and I added a part-time pastoral position. Somewhere in the midst of preparing for ministry and actual ministry, I had lost my own way with God. I was tired, burnt-out, and I needed help.
Click here to read Chicago writer Shawn R. B. Atteberry's story of dealing with depression and her experience of spiritual direction.
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Spiritual direction during high tea
Jeanne Miller-Clark and her staff host a weekly “Ancient Ritual of High Tea” for people living with cancer and their caregivers. Silence, reflection, and contemplation while sipping tea help people notice each moment. Jeanne serves tea in beautiful teacups from around the world, donated by patients and their families. Jeanne is pictured with a cancer patient who donated a teacup from her great grandmother.
For more on how spiritual care is linked with health care, see this New York Times article. (You need to register, but it's free.)
12 blocks to male spirituality
Philip Culbertson helpfully (circa 1992) lists twelve stumbling blocks that inhibit the development of a healthy masculine spirituality within the Christian tradition. Despite many of the issues arising from the late 1980’ the list does in some measure begin to get at the “false masculine” and thus the obstacles and opportunities we face as males in becoming more fully human, alive, and free.Read the list here.
Profit through meditation
Meditation has been around for thousands of years, but not so long ago extended retreats or programs that banned speech were reserved for aging rock stars or college students on the ten-year plan. And while the practice isn't exactly mainstream in corporate America, more and more executives are open to anything that might help them thrive in - or temporarily disconnect from - today's BlackBerry-addled ADD business climate.